Of cause I waited with bated breath for the answer. He continued “you either work at it. Weed, prune, fertilise, care, learn and really pay attention to your garden and care about it.”
“Or you trash everyone else’s”
“What you choose is up to you, but only one way will make sure other people want to enjoy the garden with you.”
I wonder how many peoples normal response to feeling threatened, or simply miss understanding the situation, is attack as a form of defence? To bad mouth people just because it makes them feel powerful, or to think they are better than all others instead of playing as a team to all strengths and weaknesses.